Saturday, September 20, 2014

my Mongol Derby adventure "write-up" for friends who might not seen this elsewhere ....it was amazing .....



                      
 Racing in Mongolia: The Mongol Derby 2014
 I am bent over at the waist, hands on knees, gulping air as the vet checks my pony. His heart rate is 72 and will come down to the required 64 in about 5 minutes. Mine is about 200 beats per minute and no one cares. I used to watch my basketball player son stand like this during timeouts, trying to recover, and now I completely understand. I am exhausted and have about 20 minutes to recover before leaving on the next jet-fueled pony! This is Day 6 of the Mongol Derby and the urtuus (horse stations) are starting to blend into one.
I thought I was going to romantically name each pony and remember every thing about the rides between stations. However, I not only forgot to name them, as half the time I was hanging on for dear life as they rocketed out of the stations and bolted for the next 10-15 kilometers, but I do not remember individual stations. I remember moments of complete panic as I thought I was going to die or moments when I feared my comrades in saddle were going to die. Interspersed are memories of lovely meadows and fragrant pine forests, incredible views across mountains and long, long rides when we wondered if we would ever get there!
The Mongol Derby is a 1000-kilometer (or about 620 miles) adventure, billed as the world’s longest, toughest horse race. It is every thing they say and more. Absolutely the hardest thing I have ever done and yet, one of the best highlights of my life so far. Childbirth hurt more but did not last as long. I finished the race in eight days, riding about 80 miles a day. I finished 9th, out of 38 riders. Eleven had to retire. Upon returning to the States, one of my sons said it was, as if, I had galloped from Baltimore to Chicago in 8 days. I realized I had no concept of such a distance, as all we were concentrating on each day, was riding the 25-mile legs between horse stations (urtuus). I was trying to ride 4 legs every day.
This race was conceived 7 years ago by Tom Morgan, the founder of The Adventurists, a British expedition company that looks for really extreme ways to challenge oneself. The adventure recreates Genghis Khan’s empire building postal system or pony express route. Genghis Khan had devised a system to pass information to his generals by sending riders with messages. They changed mounts every 40 kilometers and could carry messages literally hundreds of miles in a day. Supposedly some galloped 250 miles, changing ponies, before stopping themselves. Genghis Khan reportedly had 10 devoted generals, who were with him for 30 years or more, and this communication system helped them conquer the second largest empire ever known.
These riders rode the same marmot-hole strewn, dusty plains, crossed the same swollen rivers and looked for the same mountain passes that we did. And they did it without GPS help. I read somewhere that the messages were written in verse and the riders sang the song to the next messenger so the instructions would remain the same. Even today the Mongolian herders sing to their horses while riding. I tried it and it did pass the time on a slow pony. On the fast ones you had no breath to spare and you just hoped they did not step in a hole. More on that later.
We all arrived from various countries, into Ulaanbaatar, the capital of Mongolia around August 3rd.  The Ramada hotel had a rooftop bar and it was there that the friendships started. The riders slowly introduced themselves and different pairings began. The end of the race sorted the riders by ability more than anything else, but in the beginning, I would have to say the ability to drink copious amounts of beer or vodka was the deciding factor of companionship.  After 3 days of pre-race training, where we learned how to use our GPS navigators and how to call for help on our trackers, we were deemed ready.
I don’t think anything really prepares you for being turned loose on a bolting pony in a strange country. My first pony was great, biddable, relatively fast and I started the race in front, heading down a valley in a straight line. I had met two lovely New Zealand ladies that were about the closest to me in age- every one was younger by decades- and I looked to ride the next leg with them. While waiting for them, I picked my second pony simply by asking for a strong, fast horse (I soon learned to add a few more qualifiers to those criteria). The herder threw me up on this second pony and he bolted at a dead run for the next 15 miles. I never saw my New Zealand friends again until the last day! This pony ran and jumped and careened across a plain that was full of marmot holes, sagebrush like bushes, and gravelly dry streambeds. It all went by in a blur. I could only aim for the one rider in front I could see and once we passed him I was just hoping that the distant peak I had lined up in my sights was the right one. I could not pull out my GPS until this pony had slowed after about 1 ½ hr of galloping. Luckily I remembered to keep sipping water from my hydration pack, as that was all I could do- I just kept the sipping end in my mouth. Riders who did not do this quickly succumbed to dehydration and dropped out the second and third day completely exhausted and sick.
So, I was all alone, about 2nd in the race, wondering where I was and if this pony would stop when another rider galloped up beside me. I remember saying, “Thank God, someone else!”  It was Mary Lee, a fashion designer from Miami, whom had seemed a little distant in pre-race training, but looks are deceiving, and she and I became great friends and rode most of the race together.  With a long. black braid affixed to her helmet and her own exotic dark looks, the Mongol herders loved her. She and I shared a similar riding style and outlook on life. No patience for the whiners, it was “balls to the walls” and we rode like bats out of hell for the next 8 days.
My fox hunting background definitely gave me an edge on many riders. The frontrunners all had either foxhunting experience or were race riders or racehorse trainers in their respective countries. Mary had been galloping polo ponies for a year to prepare and Catherine was just as fit as could be. We were used to galloping long distances over rough ground and we had clearly separated into the hardest riding group by the third day.
I did fall and face-plant into the dirt on Day 3 when my pony stepped in a hole at a full gallop.  It happened so fast that all I really remember is popping back up and saying some choice curse words. My companions had waited to make I wasn’t dead, then said, “Try to catch up!” and they were gone. Luckily it was close to a herd of ponies and a nearby herder returned my escaping horse.  I did manage to rejoin them, to their surprise (they told me later) and I earned a little respect. The “tough old bird” legend was beginning! Actually, every one of us had falls. Some very dramatic, some comical, but all of them made us hold our breath until the rider was deemed OK. There were some serious accidents and some riders had to drop out due to injuries. The guys in our group were definitely better than the girls, at hanging onto the ponies, as they somersaulted. Brent, my wonderful Australian friend, fell one day 4 times I think, and amazingly, never let that pony get away. My second fall occurred on Day 6 as I tried to read my helpful notes. Pulling that piece of white paper out of my pocket scared the ‘bejeesus’ out of my pony and he disappeared at a dead-run before I even hit the ground.  Charles, the South African guardian angel of the riders, did rescue me after I called for assistance.  A welcome sight indeed, he brought another herder who returned my spooky pony, and I continued. That was the leg I did alone, which my son reminded me  (as he watched my spot tracker) that I seemed to meander erratically. That was because I could not pull my GPS out without the pony starting to buck so I meandered. I finally hooked up with Bonnie Hutton, a fellow American, but our ‘no-good, very bad day’ continued. Bonnie got bucked off again, breaking a finger.  Eventually, we arrived at station 22 with time penalties.
The next day was a long one, fraught with attacking guard dogs, marmot holes, and never-ending dusty plains.  We had left the beautiful Orkhorn River after two legs and seemed to ride forever. Coming into station 25, Cozy Campbell, the young Australian vet, was a welcome sight. He had a jar of olives and peanuts out and I think I ate the whole thing, thinking it was the best food I ever had.  This brings me to the food, which was pretty awful.  We all lost weight and lived on rice pudding for breakfast (not bad) and noodle stew with bits of mutton, carrots and potatoes the rest of the time. It fueled us but that’s about it. The herders were very good about having boiled water at every station. Sometimes all we really wanted was a cup of cold water but, in general, we just really appreciated the kindness and thoughtfulness of the host families. Their generosity to strangers is legendary and part of the culture. I can only imagine what they really thought of us crazy foreigners.
There were wolves, lightening storms, rain, hail, never-ending bogs, long mountain passes and yet, what I really remember are the wonderful days in the saddle with great people.  The friendships I made were, for me, the best part of the adventure. I could ride for ten days anywhere, but to do this challenge in the wilds of Mongolia, one had to make friends and help and support each other. We laughed and cried and encouraged each other through some tough days.  I proved to myself that I could do an extremely hard, physical challenge and that alone was a personal best.  The biggest reward was hearing my kids and family tell me how proud of me they were.

Wednesday, September 10, 2014

Snowie and John

Snowie never missed a birthday. She sent me a Happy Birthday card for probably the last ten years at least. I think she kept better track of birthdays than anyone I know. I have tried to emulate her and remember to wish my friends Salutations on their big days. Today is John Myers birthday and I know she would want us to wish him the best.  Happy Birthday John. We miss seeing you and we all miss Snowie.
She always wrote lovely Thank You  notes after any and every occasion, no phone calls or emails, but a beautiful, thoughtful written note. About two and 1/2 weeks ago, I invited friends over to hear about Mongolia. Snowie called the night before and asked if she could come, "Would love to hear the tales!", she said. I was delighted to see her and managed to have a few minutes to ask how she was and how was John. She seemed a little frailer but was happy to be with friends and talked about maybe moving to a house on the water. Never a word about her own health. Mike and I managed to give her a kiss goodbye on the cheek as she left and I still have the thoughtful note that came two days later saying how much she enjoyed seeing everyone. I never heard Snowie complain about any health issue and she had several scares in the past years. We all worried about her heart. I remember one day hunting at Morelands, I was returning to the trailers and came upon Snowie literally hanging onto the tail of her horse who was quietly walking back to the trailer. I jumped off and asked what was up. I think it was one of her first episodes with her heart and because she never wanted a fuss made,  she never radioed for anybody to come help her,  but let her horse bring her back. She was the original "tough old bird!"
When I first started hunting she was riding sidesaddle and whipping with John. I remember the very quiet but insistent, " John, John, John...."  slightly louder as he might have moved on a little quicker after a view. In fact, Leonard, our mutual blacksmith, said to me after hearing about Snowie's passing, that if he had a dollar for every time he heard that " John, John, John,..." he would be a rich man. Still brings a smile to my face.
Snowie was the most gracious lady and she never had a bad word to say about anybody. She loved hunting and her help with hounds in the last years was invaluable. Her home was the site of many memorable parties and Hunt Balls, in fact, I will never forget a few legendary conga lines. She taught me a lot about watching hounds work over the years and I loved to chat with her as we met at a check once in a while. She waited with a book in that big truck of hers and kept on hunting as our best road whip even when it was harder for her.


Tuesday, September 9, 2014

I will miss Snowie, a great lady and wonderful friend.

This is for my friend Snowie ,


RETURN by Beulah Smith

If I come back- and well I may, my dear-
You will not find me in a summer rose.
Nor in a twisted, withered copper leaf
that spirals from a naked tree and goes;
You will not find me in a swallow dipping
Through chiffon April curtains of rain;
You will not find me in the rippling wind
That stirs as a sea of golden August grain;
I shall not be a cheery hearthside cricket,
Nor sing from the plaintive throat of whippoorwill;
But when the hunter's moon rides to the west,
If you should hear a fox bark on the hill-
Then turn in your soft, smooth bed a bit.
Knowing, with shuttered eyes, the moon is bright-
Knowing a vixen runs, alone with the stars,
Down all the frosty ridges of the night.